RESPECT TO RECEIVE RESPECT

CONCEPT CHANGING ADVICE (FRIEND VS COLLEAGUE)

Concept changing advice from Mr. Michael Davis: :)

Mr. Davis was 55 years old when I met him. I reckon I was 21.

He honored me by calling me his friend. He asked me to call him just MICHAEL. With his life time experiences, he suggested like “We will quarrel when there is problem and we will have fun in good times as friends”.

But when we will be among seniors, juniors or other colleagues he wished that I shall call him MR. DAVIS.

I believe & trust that it was his life time learning and way to secure Dignity and provide Self-Respect to a True Friend among other people.

Respect to receive Respect. :)     

Take care!

DJ

ATCSA 2016

ATCSA 2016

Lessons from Renowned Surgeons:

1. Looks & Getup of a person are nothing. What matters is beautiful Heart & Mind.

2. Do not be fool of illusions but use your Heart and Mind to see the truth.

3. Learn but do not learn Mistakes!!!

DJ

Have Patience and You will get everything!!!

"HAVE PATIENCE AND YOU WILL GET EVERYTHING"

Today I would like to share one of my experiences that I learned from my professor yesterday. He is one of the renowned Paediatric Surgeon of Bangladesh. I was assisting him for excision of choledochal cyst with cholecystectomy of 6 years old female patient.

When he opened the abdomen, there was huge cyst and it involved other vital organs too. Initially I felt like he was also confused. The dissection was very difficult. Everyone were in doubt if any definitive treatment could be provided to the patient. It was indeed difficult time for the surgeons which could have been unfortunate time for the patient.

But he was so calm and steady. He dissected the structures very slowly and perfectly. He advised us, as operating surgeon to assisting surgeons, like “HAVE PATIENCE, YOU WILL GET EVERYTHING”. He was saying about the structures which we were looking for during dissection and finally he dissected the organs so nicely that we got everything as we wished and the operation was successful.

The simple sentences he said during operation got imprinted in my heart and mind. He taught me how to be calm and steady during difficult time. I believe his advice for us “Have patience, you will get everything” applies in real life too. We have to face many difficulties in life and we need to stay calm and have patience to be successful.J